It was bound to happen. 11 months with no theft or anything, we were surprised. No use for our Travel insurance. But then it happened. The violated feeling, the disappointment, the hassle. Pickpocketed in the one place we were told it would happen. Take heed of our cautionary tale.
Crowds are bad
Maudy Thursday the crowds were in Antigua in droves. The Holy Week was on and Friday was the biggest day of all. We had been home all day and were dying to get out.
We headed into town to eat. We realised a little too late that was a mistake. There are 3 arched walkways around the Central Park and the one we decided to walk down got thicker and thicker until movement was near impossible, we were stuck.
A procession was happening in Central Park and the crowds were packed in tight. Everyone had stopped to watch. I didn’t want to, I felt uneasy in the crowd with no reason except I had two little kids and my inner caution was screaming at me.
I asked my husband if he had his wallet and he nodded yes so we proceeded to push and move our way through. My daughter was on my husband’s shoulders, while I piggy-backed our son. Through the thick of this crowd he fell off my back and I was awkwardly carrying him half to the side, half to the back- that’s how bad the crowd was. My husband had one hand on our daughter’s foot keeping her upright and one hand in his front pocket over his wallet.
As we finally pushed our way out of the thick, sweating sea of human bodies he realised a few seconds too late that out of the two iPhones in his unprotected front pocket, only one remained.
Where’s the phone?
“Babe, do you have your phone?”
“No, I gave it to you.”
“I don’t have it.”
He turned back to the crowd, but the impossibility of finding any thief in the mass of human bodies was hopeless. I mean, what fool thinks he can take on a 6”8 giant with a beautiful child on his shoulders? A coward that’s who. One who can melt into the crowd and never face down my giant of a man.
Then it hits you!
Five Conversations of iPhone Loss
- Denial – “Babe it must be at home, you didn’t give it to me. We’ll find it.” Josh
- Anger – “How dare they steal from us, we were carrying children!” Erin
- Bargaining – “Maybe we could go back and find it?” Josh
- Depression – “I’ve lost all my photos, my clock, my diary…” Erin
- Acceptance – “It’s gone, babe.” Josh “It’s gone, what do we do now?” Erin
Three Things I Thought
First – someone was in his pocket! His front pocket, I mean come on!
Second – my iPhone, which has been smashed and fixed so many times, is gone. Most recently fixed 2 weeks ago for $100 in Guatemala City. Luckily there was not a lot of photos in that time, which I hadn’t taken off, but my watch, my diary, my music-player, my gamer, everything was gone.
And then third – The wallet is okay and Josh still has his phone, which was in the same pocket. We are blessed. May whoever stole it needed it more then I and hopefully is feeding his family tonight.
Finding the Tourist Police
Once we got home we checked our travel insurance and found it was claimable, but we needed a police report. We found a phone number for the tourist police, open 24 hours a day with bilingual staff, but no answer.
My husband decided to jump on the scooter and go looking for it. He was gone for an hour walking the streets before he finally stumbled on some back parking lot with 2 cops standing around. One of them made a phonecall and an English speaking person came on the phone. Passing the phone back and forth Josh managed to get the report done and arrive back home close to midnight.
This map will show you where the tourist police is should, God forbid, you ever need them. The tourist policae can be found on the far West side of the map, located by a "Z" below the bus station/markets.
While Josh was out I called the travel insurance company for verification. We needed the police report and the proof of purchase. So I called our phone company in Australia for the proof of purchase and filled in all the documents. A proof of purchase is difficult when you had a plan with a phone company 2 years ago and no longer do.
I also activated the “Where is my iphone” app and my Prey program. Prey is a great program which you can locate your items. You can flip a switch to missing and it will take a photo with the front camera to hopefully catch the perp. It also enables GPS and forces a wifi connection if near one.
Unfortunately without a sim I had no 3G and the wifi never connected. I suspect a hard reset was carried out immediately.
I’ve finally accepted my iPhone is gone, and I am working very hard on the forgiveness part. May this be the last part of the bad side of travel.
Now when can we get back to the States so I can get a new phone?